Alaina’s Story

Growing up, I didn’t live with my biological parents. My mother went to prison for drugs when I was only 5 months old, and my father and my sister didn’t live nearby. I was raised by a family friend I called Aunt Carolyn.

When I was 9, Aunt Carolyn passed away, and I went to live with my grandmother and aunt and uncle. However, my grandmother also died a few months later. I remained with my aunt and uncle until the man I believed was my father said he wanted me to live with him and my sister.

That lasted only a few months, until Child Protective Services removed us from the home. Once CPS got involved, my biological sister was adopted and I was given the option to move to a children’s home.

Looking back, I see how God worked behind the scenes.

I lived at the children’s home from ages 11 to 17 with eight other girls and two house parents. Though many people view children’s homes negatively, this one was filled with love. The director himself had grown up in one and understood what we needed.

When I was 16, my house parents had to leave. Losing them sent me into a dark place. During that time, I entered a toxic relationship, but after it ended, I realized I needed change. I called my youth pastor, and that night I opened my heart to Christ.

In January 2024, my former house parents gained custody of me, and the following January, they adopted me. Looking back, I see how God worked behind the scenes. My adoptive mom always says you can be a victim or a victor. Through Christ, I’ve learned I’m a victor—and I’m grateful for every step God used to bring me home.

Alaina attends the Blankenbaker Campus.